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Why do men say they prefer a larger figured woman truely?

April 09 2012

It amazes me that men say they prefer larger figured women,and yes I am 1 of those girls! Some reasons I have been given before are,More pushing for the cushion, bigger girls are less vain and giive more to the lovin. Sick of the stick like creatures. Bigger girls give more. I believe when a person has confidence dosen't matter what size they are they can be truely sexy! In saying all this I want to say I do not agree with all these comments,as in big girls give more,i do not care if i am a bigger woman i give what i want,when i want and to who i want,because every woman has a choice. So please do not think larger figured women put out easier then their smaller sisters. Hope this gives some light to men and women alike,and if you feel the need to be ugly and say nasty things,here is a smiley face because i will be laughing too! :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I put out ALL the time! I thought it was because I was fat, but now I realise it is just because I'ma slut.Thanks so much for this post :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Jennylee is a healthy size 16 and I'm very happy. She was a 12 when we met and that was then my idea of perfection. I've never been real keen on skinny but as long as a lady is pleasant to be with, I have a broad range of taste in figures.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Fantastic, I am sure there are more men like yourself. I just want peple to realise their worth. Cause I am a sexy Biatch lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Embrace the word darling! "fat" good on you! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    'figure' being the appropriate word here.... i like 'larger figured' women..... not for any of the schoolyard reasons mentioned above though!skinny or large, it's a shapely figure that does it for me...... as far as visuals go anyhowlarger women generally have more sexy curves

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Whatever the reason, it's nice to be appreciated.   I think that larger women (me included) were brainwashed for so many years through the media and the keep fit campagnes (all power to those that are into it) to believe we were unattractive if we weren't skinny. It seems to be a western cultural thing. Many other cultures see fuller figured women as beautiful and desirable.   I have skinny gfs who torture themselves to keep up with appearances, and their husband/partner's expectations to be perfect (referring to maintaining a size 8, 10 and 12 figure).   Since joining RHP, to my amazement, I have discovered men who adore and appreciate curvy women. Who knew they existed!!!!   What am I getting at? Larger/curvy does not = desperate or easy. It also doesn't mean that men see us that way either.   I believe it comes down to the individual and their intentions - the good, the bad and the ugly as to how they treat women in general and how those women let themselves be treated.   I love RHP .... LOL   Cheers SF xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't think so, at least I don't think you will like the answer. What I will say though is that yes, some men genuinely want a larger figured lady.Some men fall in love with the woman and couldn't give a tinkers about her dress size.Some men aren't sexually turned on by fully figured ladies and won't go there.Then there is the other category.Cheers Felonius.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Now I can see this denegrating into a "lets slam the fatty/skinny" post and I do so hope not. . I have a male friend who told me that the skinny girls will not feed a man and that is why he goes for the cuddly women.......he likes to eat and men in the country dont like to survive on a lettuce leaf. I am talking cuddly here though and not morbidly obese.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am with jensman here...As long as they have a personality and there is a click, size,shape just fades away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Why do men say they prefer larger women,because some men do.Short answer. The reasons we are attracted to people go beyond just the physical,usually.Unless like a profile I recently read stated 'I am lookng for anyone who wants to have fun'.That was it,female .male ,couples etc didn't matter. For those of us who want more than just a physical connection looks are important of course, but there is so much more. A personality,sense of humour,style,common interests,ability to hold a conversation with minimal grunts ,ums,and babes or huns.Someone who can remember my name is always a plus.! Most women have been socialized to believe that if we arent a particular size or shape men wont be interested in us.It simply aint true , and I should know xHugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    LOL dnt hold back,honesty is always the best policy u go girl ;-) Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' I put out ALL the time! I thought it was because I was fat, but now I realise it is just because I'ma slut.Thanks so much for this post :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We are who w are reguardless,beauty comes in many forms! I have several lol Yes 1 is I am a cheeky biatch!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ....but men still want me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The llove of play..if the spark is there then the fun follows..it should not be about the size big or small but the want from the desires..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hey teasegoddess I find Bbw are way better in bed not only saying that I find yous very sexy which is a turn on lol wink wink to yous all lol but the truth is larger women have the curves in the right places and now how to work it.......and love getting me big arms all over them,jst me 2cent.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'luv2ply' Hey teasegoddess I find Bbw are way better in bed not only saying that I find yous very sexy which is a turn on lol wink wink to yous all lol but the truth is larger women have the curves in the right places and now how to work it.......and love getting me big arms all over them,jst me 2cent. And what mighty fine arms you have ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    this is what i came back for!!!   im a fat chick and im proud to be one   i agree with PolarBear...i always thought i put out cause i was fat (you never know when the next lay will come for us fatties) but ive learnt its because im a slut too   fat sluts unite!!!!   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i dont know why but i like larger chicks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I brought the vino..... . But lets not be so sexist here, Do all you skinny girls put it out for the fat fellas? What about you fat chicks (who we now know put out all the time because they are just sluts) do you put it out for the kegs? The big beer bellied men? Or is it only for the yummy men with six packs and strong arms?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Love em all ,tall,short,fat ,thin,lean and muscly,really good lookng though,no,not what he looks like as much as, do I like HIM, does he like ME. Doesnt need to make me laugh,as long as he does,doesnt need to be a rocket scientist....but needs to be a little smart.....kiss right,smell right...and generosity of spirit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden' I brought the vino..... . But lets not be so sexist here, Do all you skinny girls put it out for the fat fellas? What about you fat chicks (who we now know put out all the time because they are just sluts) do you put it out for the kegs? The big beer bellied men? Or is it only for the yummy men with six packs and strong arms?   being a fat slut i feel im in a position to answer this for you Ms Maiden.....i have been with a few fat fella's and personally i dont like it....between my fat gut and his, a cock just isnt big enough to reach where its meant to go i dont stay away but if we cant work it out then i dont go back Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dear Hesione, I am not into big small or what ever... love making is a matter of being... you either get it or it is a form of masturbation. The big problem for men hung less than a stallion is that larger women, think they (the men) cannot cut mustard. Well in terms of penetration that is correct. Yet the Tao finger scissor technique can "blow any woman".One purpose

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' this is what i came back for!!!   im a fat chick and im proud to be one   i agree with PolarBear...i always thought i put out cause i was fat (you never know when the next lay will come for us fatties) but ive learnt its because im a slut too   fat sluts unite!!!!   Hugs wooohooooooo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    large girls attracted ta skinny arse blokes an vice versa. may be a genetic thing but has been proven a fella who can get the deed DONE with a bigger broad comes harder than with a stick figuer....   ahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaahahhahaaa     Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    thats because us fat chicks are sooo damn hot and sexy   Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' Quoting 'Handmaiden' I brought the vino..... . But lets not be so sexist here, Do all you skinny girls put it out for the fat fellas? What about you fat chicks (who we now know put out all the time because they are just sluts) do you put it out for the kegs? The big beer bellied men? Or is it only for the yummy men with six packs and strong arms?   being a fat slut i feel im in a position to answer this for you Ms Maiden.....i have been with a few fat fella's and personally i dont like it....between my fat gut and his, a cock just isnt big enough to reach where its meant to go i dont stay away but if we cant work it out then i dont go back Hugs I just lost a whole mouthful of cuppa out my nose

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' Quoting 'Handmaiden' I brought the vino..... . But lets not be so sexist here, Do all you skinny girls put it out for the fat fellas? What about you fat chicks (who we now know put out all the time because they are just sluts) do you put it out for the kegs? The big beer bellied men? Or is it only for the yummy men with six packs and strong arms?   being a fat slut i feel im in a position to answer this for you Ms Maiden.....i have been with a few fat fella's and personally i dont like it....between my fat gut and his, a cock just isnt big enough to reach where its meant to go i dont stay away but if we cant work it out then i dont go back Hugs I have always found that where there is a will there is a way. My recent man carries a keg in front of his six pack and has introduced me to a new (gasp I thought I had tried them all ) position that works....realy well for two larger bodied types. Let me message you with the details...... . Careful there DGT...coffee on the keyboard menas sticky...........keys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Jeeze you remind me of Roxxy! Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think sexiness is sensory and not limited to the visual sense- it's how a person looks, smells, sounds, tastes and feels and larger women feel super soft- I felt one the other week ;) and then there is charisma and mojo too.Thing is-There are fat chicks that are lazy in the sack same as there are skinny chicks that are lazy. There are fat chicks that are incredible in bed and their are skinny chicks that are incredible. ........and it's a lucky dip.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    im a bigger girl but dont seem to find many my age that like us bigger girls . wonder where these guys are that your talking about lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Jeeze you remind me of Roxxy! Cheers Felonius   Jeez you remind me of Nev! Hugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    can see why --- sexy curves --need something to cuddle and grab

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Can't wait for those big arms to be all over me lol Quoting 'luv2ply' Hey teasegoddess I find Bbw are way better in bed not only saying that I find yous very sexy which is a turn on lol wink wink to yous all lol but the truth is larger women have the curves in the right places and now how to work it.......and love getting me big arms all over them,jst me 2cent.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr'I put out ALL the time! I thought it was because I was fat, but now I realise it is just because I'ma slut.Thanks so much for this post :D Thats me as well   Love both posts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm a curvy girl who has the nickname J-Lo due to my ass, but I don't care. Yes I'm curvy, which really is anotherword for fat, but I don't care. I have a belly and a bum and I'm not afraid to use them!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am married to a hot stunning bbw, and in my sexual life I have only ever been with one skinny boned girl. All the rest have been beautiful big bond woman, and trust me when I say they are 1000 times more sensual and sexually aroused than small boned girls. And I have found that in my many years of sexual learning that mouth watering,jaw dropping bigger boned girls are more sensitive to the touch all over there gorgeous bodies,,, I mean when you touch,caress, and run your tongue all over there naked body's its like everywhere you touch is a G spot. I'll say as simply as I can,,, bring me 10 small boned girls and I'll die a virgin,,, bring me 10 big boned girls and I'll die a stud. Hugs Mr cns xxx ooo

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    For us it's about people and variety in our sex lives. There are gorgeous larger ladies and gorgeous skinny ladies. It not just body and presentation, it attitude and personality. Good personal hygiene is also important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' Quoting 'luv2ply' Hey teasegoddess I find Bbw are way better in bed not only saying that I find yous very sexy which is a turn on lol wink wink to yous all lol but the truth is larger women have the curves in the right places and now how to work it.......and love getting me big arms all over them,jst me 2cent. And what mighty fine arms you have ;)You could wrap more then your arms over me darling! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I would call myself fat, for sure. Size 14, generous belly etc. My challenge is I'm attracted to a very particular male physical type - tall (6'), dark, athletic/lean, conventionally attractive. Think Tom. Selleck in his hey day! I am attracted to some variations - fairer, no hair on his chest - but mostly it's a fairly limited 'type' that gets my heart racing. I'm not sure that type of man is looking for lilmisschubby :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'cnsfelswat' I am married to a hot stunning bbw, and in my sexual life I have only ever been with one skinny boned girl. All the rest have been beautiful big bond woman, and trust me when I say they are 1000 times more sensual and sexually aroused than small boned girls. And I have found that in my many years of sexual learning that mouth watering,jaw dropping bigger boned girls are more sensitive to the touch all over there gorgeous bodies,,, I mean when you touch,caress, and run your tongue all over there naked body's its like everywhere you touch is a G spot. I'll say as simply as I can,,, bring me 10 small boned girls and I'll die a virgin,,, bring me 10 big boned girls and I'll die a stud. Hugs Mr cns xxx ooo Put the others down to make your point Mr cns...it's unnecessary. It's also not true that bigger boned girls are more sensitive...THAT is only your personal experience.As QLDtwo4fun said, it's the whole package body,presentation,attitude,personailty etc etc

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Have been with 3 women that would be classified as skinny or normal by the barbie preaching society.....Took me 3 to work out that I only like to be with fat women. Have been with a few since, ended up marrying one and could not be happier. Certainly would not leave her for loosing weight, but love her for being a big girl.BBW lover and bloody proud of it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I always thought that I would never meet anyone for some fun times and well 'HELLO', how wrong was I. I love the fact that guys are seeing past the bloody obvious and seeing a hot, sexy, intelligent, funny person who loves to have sex. Won't be stopping anytime soon......

  • Genius_Ironman

    Genius_Ironman

    14 years ago

    Meeting ladies from here, it is interesting to see how the "Body type" field relates (or fails too) to the actual physique. “A little extra padding” can turn out to be either anorexic or spherical. Some guys indeed do like a particular body type, so it makes sense to describe yourself accurately.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    its not about looks and size its whats on the inside personality that counts gsoh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As you can see..I am boobsinspector; hence love handful and mouthful of boobs...thats hard to find in skinny chick...also when we go wild there are chances I might break a bone or two if she is too skinny and fragile..I need soem love handles...so girls what u waiting for...bring it on....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'coodi_yowie' 'figure' being the appropriate word here.... i like 'larger figured' women..... not for any of the schoolyard reasons mentioned above though!skinny or large, it's a shapely figure that does it for me...... as far as visuals go anyhowlarger women generally have more sexy curves very well said... thank you .. :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi I dont have any trouble finding males which like my type of female. It's just for this men I am sexy and gorgeous. But please ladies I have realy trouble with some words. Why do we call us, sluts or bitches. I dont like it. I am no slut and I am no bitch. I am a female who loves and enjoys sex. I love the MALE...but dont you dare call me a slut or a bitch. Men would never use this type of words to discribe them selves, why do women do this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    BBW rock as ...they have all the curves, shape and size and I soooooooo cant resist a fuller shaped ass.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    When they say "larger figured", do they mean big boned or fat.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    but to be honest.... there is always something more attractive about a woman with a womanly figure... god may have gave you hips...but puberty perfected them for you... everything, when in proportion looks better... and just for the record Angelic... your proportions have made sure ive never had to go back for seconds xxxxxxxxxx although your absence has given me cravings ... ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' I would call myself fat, for sure. Size 14, generous belly etc. My challenge is I'm attracted to a very particular male physical type - tall (6'), dark, athletic/lean, conventionally attractive. Think Tom. Selleck in his hey day! I am attracted to some variations - fairer, no hair on his chest - but mostly it's a fairly limited 'type' that gets my heart racing. I'm not sure that type of man is looking for lilmisschubby :( you are so full of it... and just for the record, this 5'8", athletic, olive skinned hottie is still waiting at the airport

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If you dont have an "i just ate the horse you tied up out the front" pot belly, you are probably pretty hot. it's the pot belly of a bloke or lass that worries my libido. A pot gut usually says "I don't care about my self".. I've drooled at loads of larger ladies. They can have great figures. ~sigh~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    For the last year I have been thinking I had to lose weight and get skinny for any guy to like me....brainwashed by my ex who told me he would marry me if I was skinny because his friends tease him for being a "chubby chaser"...cant believe I wasted 4yrs on that idiot...this thread has made me smile...   im a proud size 16 and I think Im sexy as... :)

  • CurvyMuse

    CurvyMuse

    14 years ago

    See I don't agree with the attitude of " you never know when the next lay will come for us fatties". Its a crappy attitude and attitude and personality is what is going to attract people to you. Im big/fat/curvy, whatever you want to call me, but I have a healthy realistic attitude and I like myself.Do I think I could be healthier or in better shape? Hell yes! (And Im working on it without it being the end all and be all). I don't have a problem in attracting play partners simply because friends and partners enjoy my company and like to stick around. I dont whinge and Im not a miserygut either. I love life and I think that is the best aproach, regardless of shape and size.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'maxxsinner'Have been with 3 women that would be classified as skinny or normal by the barbie preaching society..... Took me 3 to work out that I only like to be with fat women. Have been with a few since, ended up marrying one and could not be happier. Certainly would not leave her for loosing weight, but love her for being a big girl. BBW lover and bloody proud of it. That is so sweet!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Mrs FL here!!!   Do I wish I could lose some weight - sure.   Do I wish I could fit into smaller sized clothes - of course.   Am I self conscious about my body image - sadly yes.   Do I think that when Mr FL or a couple we are playing with get to sink into my soft, warm, pliant flesh I'll forget about all the lumps and bumps and just focus on the "oh my fucking god" ...... hells yes!   And do I get a lot of turn downs because of my size, weight and appearance? Na ah. Let's just say if you could see me right now I'm like the cat that got the cream. That nice, plump pussy cat who basks in her glory and says to hell with the rest of the world!   Like any sexual creature, my sexuality largely lives in my mind, and when I'm so hot and horny and turned on and I'm teasing you and pleasing you and taking you to the edge and back over and over and over ....... well, what's a few extra curves between friends lol!   Mwah! xxx Mrs FL!

  • aldus1

    aldus1

    14 years ago

    I dont care what size a lady is, its the smile, sense of humour and whats between the ears that is more important to me. I love reading a person through their eyes and smile, and I am just a sucker for a genuine cheeky smile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Its all about the curves, and yes curvy woman do feel softer and that is a sensory thing that adds to the charm of larger women, Been with skinny and big, and yeah lucky dip alright, worst root I ever had came from a Stick, yet others have been great, some big girls were to big and made it hard to be a little more energetic, I just goe with the flow, but will take a curvy woman over a stick any day. Also look back over History, beautiful woman were all depicted as curvy, threw Michel Angelo painting's, historical records, and then there was the Fad of the sexy corset to exaggerate that beautiful female curve. Men have have not evloved much since the cave men so we still like the curvy women, and Larger hips also mean there better suited for child birth, that has never faded out of our evolution, so we still look for it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I guess for me I like a womans figure.   Some skinny women have it, nice butt, hips, boobies and pow, there you have a womans curves. Some just look like adolescent boys, which could be your thing.... not mine.   Most of the larger ladies also have a womens figure, its just bigger. I happen to love that look.   For a multitude of reasons, larger ladies generally have a more positive and pleasant disposition. This gives them a much nicer smile....   I sport a gut, and well even if I was only given a 6 inch nail, I have a 50 pound hammer to drive it home....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I prefer fit looking gals but don't mind curves....I do like a larger butt and boobs though, much fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love a fuller figured woman because a woman is meant to have a bit of extra padding . I do love big curves which includes the boobs and nice big bottom with some lovely broad hips. Yes please give it to me tease goddess

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Love girls with curves and full breasts, a big butt is sexy. I personally only think a girls ass can be judged by lookin at and every girls natural shape and personality. I have had dirty fun sex with bbw girls just because they where cool enough to see past the barbie syndrom themselves...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have to admit I prefer a size 14 up, My ex wife was a large lady and the sex was unbelievable then I met a woman and was taken by her petite size 8 waist and to be honest I was scared I was going to break her and to hold her felt like I was holding a fence post. I'm love exploring so when I sleep with a larger woman I can take my time and enjoy where as with a petite woman I'm done exploring in 5 mins there's just not enough of her...Anyway that's my feelings towards all this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i have loved this topic being a bbw.......i have giggled at a few...im also not desperate and wont be with just anyone just because im fat!!.........i agree with many who have said here...it all comes down to what you love..what attracts you....and i think its all about the person not the body type im sure their are a few skinny chicks that can be just as awesome as us fat chicks in bed....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Not me   I like athletic , Fit and only very attractive girls     There said it ........BRING IT ON

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'wowwow11' Not me   I like athletic , Fit and only very attractive girls     There said it ........BRING IT ON         I thought I changed your mind on this...you know you love my curves!! :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    No need for me to slam either fat or skinny. I used to be - what i call - Massive! and i still had plenty of action. Now i am more acceptable in society's eyes a healthier size 12, i still get a fair amount of attention. The best thing is, in my experience, the bigger the woman, the more respectful a guy is. IDK if thats just me or not, but that's what I have witnessed. You get these "hotshots" who just chase the "skinny hot chicks" and they think all the girls want them and should be fucking "over the moon " they even spoke to us. It makes me lollllllllllllllll AND YOU WONDER WHY IM LOOKING FOR WOMEN ON THIS SITE!!!LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL LOL PFFT MEN!When i was a bigger woman the guys were respectful and less aggressive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    some younger guys...not all, but some of them do think the older bbw women are desperate but I would like re affirm we are not ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ssshhhhhhh   dont share our secret... your curves ROCK Girl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maybe stop removing your chest hair and we'll have something to talk about :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Anytime you guys or cpls want to meet a woman with curves give us a yell.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Im not sure what hurt more ... the in-growns or your comment ... :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I spend years feeling self conscious cause I'm a bit bigger than average, but I've found the majority of guys don't mind or even prefer a woman with a bit of meat on her bones! this forum has only proved it ! all i can say is halleyluyah!!!! wish Id known years ago!!! call double standards but while theres gorgeous hunky 3o somethings that want me, Ill pass on the kegs!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Call it curvy, call it full figured, call it what you will all I know is I find curvy women a hell of a lot sexier than skinny ones. There is nothing sexy about a stick figure!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I do love these forums - I don't often get time to formulate a decent response, but you lot are so onto it, and also so impressively articulate, that by the time I do get around to finding time to have a say someone has usually beaten me to it and put it better than I could!But, jeez... I'm starting to get a bit of a complex. Recent posts have been about the evils of being a bottle blonde (I am),why one shouldn't state in your profile you are professional (yep, mine says that) and now it seems you guys would like me to be more voluptuous (and I'm definitely on the slim/athletic side). Maybe I should stop reading now while my self confidence is still intact!Seriously though, I say you go gals. Embrace your curves! There's nothing sexier than someone comfortable in their own skin!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm considered a 'big' girl by social standards - I'm a 14 with big boobs. I don't consider myself fat. I'm curvy and I flaunt it. I put out because I'm horny, not because I think I'll be more accepted. I have curves, I have personality, I have a nice smile and I use them all - and I have no trouble attracting anyone. I have recently been told, by a WOMAN, that I "look over 70kg" and "might be embarrassed or jealous when we get undressed", as she claimed to be a size 10. Mind you, she never showed us any pics! She wanted to meet my swinging partner without me. I pretty much told her to go !@#$%^&*() and get over herself. No man, ever, has told me I'm too fat. Us beautiful big girls are put down by other women, not by men. Men love us. We're the real deal because we're comfortable and confident. That's what the attraction is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nothing worse then feeling like you are about to lose something or that the rug will be pulled out from under you. Plus it's often great to be with someone who is comfortable with just being themselves... And not always trying to be something else

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Firstly...Pish tosh!.....from what I can see you look ab fab! I think there are plenty of guys who adore slim/athletic women, I'm married to one, 5"10, size 10/12, as much as lots of blokes like the bigger girls. Naturally body shape is just a starting point.Personally (from what I have witnessed out and about) I think lots of blokes will play the odds and say whatever they think will get them the furthest.Simple test....If blokes were honest enough to be honest, who would a bloke go out with given the choice...a Rebel Wilson type shape or a Rhada Mitchell type shape.Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    l should spank your arse Quoting 'wowwow11' Not me   I like athletic , Fit and only very attractive girls     There said it ........BRING IT ON

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    me.... and i don't judge you

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    And your last comment hits the nail on the head, there is nothing sexier that someone comfortable in their own skin. And I find you very sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am absolutely loving this forum topic, for the obvious reason that I to am a big girl, size 18, boobalicious with a matching spankable booty and all in all I'm pretty comfortable & happy with being just the way I am.   All of these positive comments are great and sure, larger ladies are not every mans cup of tea but RHP has shown me that a good majority of men (younger & older) are more than ok with it.   Lovely to see the acceptance and appreciation of each other on here!! We're all gorgeously unique and we all have a little something to offer.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yeah babe, you nailed it. Larger girls are not so vain. They don't tend to be princesses so much. They are generally loving women who really know how to "give as good as they get" All round I love BBW's. My first wife was a BBW, pity she's no longer with us. I'm always on the look out for a woman with a DECENT BODY. Curves are the GO babe. I love the TITS and bellies laying on top of me, nothin better tahn that sweetie!Robbo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well what a great topic and now i can relax about my (__/__) LOL and im sure has given many ladies a confident boost,we are all unique in our own way and all have something different which apeals to another. Love hearing what the guys like as we do think very different . So girls shake ya BOOTY'S!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ms_dimples4fun'Well what a great topic and now i can relax about my (__/__) LOL and im sure has given many ladies a confident boost,we are all unique in our own way and all have something different which apeals to another. Love hearing what the guys like as we do think very different . So girls shake ya BOOTY'S!!! So happy you found this a good forum. All people need to know they are beautiful. Keep Believing baby,when 1 understands the love of oneself,they walk confidently and have an amazing aura. You Go Girl.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ive just given up wondering what it is men see in me. I dont know if it cause im cute, flirty and funny or if its cause ive got tits and arse to match the fun i like to have or it could be all that. Some days i think their beer goggles are really clouded however what ever the reason who cares. Theres connection sometimes for a moment sometimes longer enjoy every moment you get Im a fan of someone finds me hot someone wont. Im not look for the one that wont, Its an easy logic to live by.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It's the curves, the boobs and bum and innate greed ha ha. It feels great to get your hands on a nice curvy part of her body and know that there is more to explore. It's the softness and the warmth.....it's the whole vibe. When I am out and bout, I will find myself looking past a skinnier lady to admire a curvy bum or nice cleavage!!! Every lady i have ever spent any serious time wiht has had an curvy wate and bigger boobs, even the most athletic girls I have been out wiht have been curvier than the norm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Lovely to see this has NOT (for once) degenerated into a fat v. skinny thread and that people are making positive comments about bigger women. I don't mind being labelled a fat chick either - I am what I am and am not about to change for someone who seeks a slinkier model. Usually, if someone finds me attractive as a person and enjoys being with me, the love handles aren't really a turn-off, and personally I prefer bigger girls to play with myself. More to explore and enjoy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'warmappliepie' they will say all sorts of things to get their end wet!   Including they like fat chicks.I am far from desperate ... would challenge you to a fuck off any day? :-P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xplicit_lyrics' boobalicious with a matching spankable booty VERY VERY Quoting 'xplicit_lyrics'We're all gorgeously unique and we all have a little something to offer.yes. You certainly are...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    you are... made me smile :) but then you always do make me smile.. moan.. scream. x x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well put gorgeous girl.It's the appreciation of the mind as well as the body. I feel all women are beautiful and all women have something to give. No matter or there size, appearance or ethnic origins. There is someone out there for everyone, it's just that you have to sift through so many fuckwits with narrow minded views to find the people who are worthy of what you have to give. To me, that makes the journey all that more pleasing and worthwhile.Take care and good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Litonya' Hi I dont have any trouble finding males which like my type of female. It's just for this men I am sexy and gorgeous. But please ladies I have realy trouble with some words. Why do we call us, sluts or bitches. I dont like it. I am no slut and I am no bitch. I am a female who loves and enjoys sex. I love the MALE...but dont you dare call me a slut or a bitch. Men would never use this type of words to discribe them selves, why do women do this. Stalky often used thse exact words to describe himself. You know, ...I really miss that bitch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Tanzania'   im a proud size 16 and I think Im sexy as... :)It's that state of mind that makes you sexy not a dress size.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    <<<<< feels like skipping around the rom naked,who wants to join me???

  • CurvyMuse

    CurvyMuse

    14 years ago

    Any woman comfortable in their skin, who is gracious with others and celebrates their femeninity will always be attractive.As for Big/curvy girls well its the cuddle factor isnt it? The allround cushiness and feeling that no matter how hard you go at it she wont break

  • CurvyMuse

    CurvyMuse

    14 years ago

    TeaseGoddess ...your boobs are EPIC!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We both love a woman with curves. Curvy and a little cuddly is always our preference, though we do agree that all women are beautiful. We have found many couples who are slim or athletic prefer to play when the other lady is similar. Personally we don't exclude slim or athletic ladies but we prefer a fuller figure, curvy, cuddly, rubenesque, voluptuous or whatever you prefer to call it. She feels more comfy with a similar lady (and prefers the male to also be solid/stocky) and he just adores soft, sexy curves. We would also draw the line at morbidly obese though. Oh and Lilith, my god woman, your husband was an idiot!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'CurvyMuse'TeaseGoddess ...your boobs are EPIC! Thankyou,I like my girls :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well that does it. I have seen way to many good looking men with bigger ladies. I am going to start my special diet of eating...lol. Really, I just try to stay like I am as I have a very big mother who I find I am just watching her die. I will not become like her and even though I still love her to death, I don't want to put myself through what she is going through. We all have our little hang ups with weight one way or the other, but really, just be happy with who you are. I am not skinny nor am I fat. I am just me. As for fat men. I just can't go there either. Fat woman....Nah sorry, once again fat just does not do it for me but then nor does skinny. If a man loves me for who I am, then I will be very blessed. One day huh

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