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Why do men say they prefer a larger figured woman truely?
April 09 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
i myself am curvy i have weight on my ass hips,and tummy....to top it off im also tall...i know im not everyones cup of tea and i am fine with that...coz i am me...there is alot of guys who like women with weight then there are guys who dont...same can be said for women .....but in the end as long as we happy and comfortable with in ourselves then all the better......i have met ppl who think coz im tall im going to be skinny and when i meet them...its sorry ur alot bigger and taller than i thought....obviously they didnt read my profile very well then lol......but to all us big grls ...love yaself respect yaself..and be happyranni xo
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RHP User
14 years ago
How many of you would be attracted to a morbidly overweight gent if he were handsome, intelligent and sensitive?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'How many of you would be attracted to a morbidly overweight gent if he were handsome, intelligent and sensitive? Morbidly obese can be worked on and fixed. Stupid is stupid and there aint nothing you can do to make the person smart, intellegent or funny.
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RHP User
14 years ago
All depends on how responsive the intimate parties involved are .. for example my wife is no cover girl larger size 14-16 but boy oh boy after 12 yrs together she still turns me on xx and the odd gentlleman with whom we play still come back for more.. . It all comes back to communication and letting your partner/s know what turns you on and what each other likes to see and do ... Happy hunting and be kind ADZ
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RHP User
14 years ago
mrnmrs4fun: I liked your post .. Except for the part where you say that your wife is no cover girl at a larger size 14-16. Sadly it's comments like that one that contribute to reasons why we don't see size 14-16 cover girls. What happened to "fair go for all"?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is this an attitude you've always had or have you become more acceting as you've matured? It seems to me that teenage girls and young, twenty-something women are only interested in buff but brainless Brad Pitt clones (or whatever the young version of Brad Pitt is these days). Even the heavier girls seem to prefer this which is hypocritical. Do fat young men have any chance at all?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Always I have gone for a man with personality and smarts. Oh dont get me wrong here, I do appreciate all the fine, fit and buff men as well BUT I have always like a conversation rather than a neanderthal grunt. (No I am NOT saying all fit and buff men are stupid grunts either) Turn on the mind and the body will surely follow. What you have to remember is that for most on this site, it is a candy store. Many need to strip themselves naked, stand in front of the mirror and have a good long hard and honest look at themselves. If they are not toned, fit and spectacular...what then do thay have to offer those that are? Why should I expect more from someone than I am prepared to give myself? Yeah yeah yeah, the couples have each other and so they really only want the fantasy man/woman/couple to play with. Those single girls....yes there are many more single men on line than single girls and it can become a bit of a smorgasbord for us girls but the men have just as much right to expect the photos they are sent to be honest as well. Why should a man lower his standards? I am not talking about being unkempt or dirty here either as personal hygeine is a whole other story.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Congratulations on reading my first post What a great topic as it's definately one of my favorites.I am a lover of all shapes and sizes but tend to steer clear of "coat racks".I agree with Harrison and Jenson, if you got a click there you may as well be blind for all the difference it makes.My reason for steering clear of the scrawny ones is that they are hollow. No lining on the insides.Might be tight at the opening but the echo effect is not good.Our curvy girls on the other hand are delightfully snug ALL the way to the bottom of the jar and seem to have quite intense orgasms.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' Turn on the mind and the body will surely follow.I used to prefer my guys younger and well proportioned. My partner is older and could lose a few kilos. Size doesn't matter when the chemistry is there.On another note, I would rather be called a fat chick than the stupid term BBW. Several times lately I have caught myself out thinking "that guy/girl would be a knockout if they lost some weight". There is nothing beautiful or attractive about a morbidly obese body.Off to jump on the treadmill now...............
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RHP User
14 years ago
and got no response at all. Quoting 'MistressT' There is nothing beautiful or attractive about a morbidly obese body.I agree, ofcourse, but this is not what I'm getting at. What I'm asking is can a girl (especially a younger girl) look past this and become involved with the person, inspite of their size, as a soul mate not a play mate?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' and got no response at all. Quoting 'MistressT' There is nothing beautiful or attractive about a morbidly obese body.I agree, ofcourse, but this is not what I'm getting at. What I'm asking is can a girl (especially a younger girl) look past this and become involved with the person, inspite of their size, as a soul mate not a play mate? Otherwise those fatties would never get laid or even married.....and they do!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I tend to think they are more real. They know who they are and are happy with who they are. They are not all hooked up on trying to stay thin or try to be someone they are not................ but hay that is just my 20c I could be wrong
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RHP User
14 years ago
No seriously.The pair of you. EVery time this fat thread comes up MissressT is there saying how ugly fat people are.Jensman I'm not surprised to see happy to jump on the same bandwagon.Heaven forbid someone who isn't under a size 18 actually like the body they're in (and yes, in most cases, that's what you're BMI will reflect as being morbidly obese).So, fuck you and your judgemental attitudes.As a fat person I deal with your shit every day of my life. However I'm healthy (I don't care if you don't believe me) and I'm thankful every day for this wonderful body of mine which can run, and fuck, and play, and jump in puddles. It can roll around on mats and it can take me down 41 flights of stairs for emergency fire drill.There are plenty of other fat people around just like me, who, other than being fat, have noting wrong with them. They are attractive to other people too, I'm talking physically here, not getting to know someone and being attracted to their personality.I even think I look better naked that I do clothed, all soft and squishy on the outside, strong underneath. I certainly have had no lack of fulfilling relationships because of my size, and I doubt it will happen anytime soon either. My partners (and lovers) not only like me for who I am, but also because I own and love this body I'm in.I refuse to be fat-shamed by the likes of anyone on RHP. Quoting 'jensman1903' and got no response at all. Quoting 'MistressT' There is nothing beautiful or attractive about a morbidly obese body.I agree, ofcourse, but this is not what I'm getting at. What I'm asking is can a girl (especially a younger girl) look past this and become involved with the person, inspite of their size, as a soul mate not a play mate?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm really looking forward to reading more pearls of wisdom from you on the "fatties" thread, PBG. (Damn it! I could really use a "sarcasm" emoticom right about now.)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just like she read your "pearls of wisdom" on this one... (You can insert the sarcastic smile where ever you like)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bahleeted1, I used to weigh somewhere in the region of 120kg. One day I realised that I was trying to eat myself to death and decided to do something about it. My body was ugly. The only clothes that fitted were in the larger ladies section. Tent-like garments that failed to hide the rolls of flab around my tummy and waist, the slabs of fat that hung over the sides of my bra, flabby wings under my upper arms and thunder thighs that looked like tree trunks. Even my knees had cellulite FFS!! Not my idea of beauty or health.I started walking everyday and started watching what I ate. Salads and vegetables, no carbs, no added fat or sugar. After 5 months I was doing 6km beach walks barely breaking a sweat and had lost more than 50 kgs. Fitness levels shot up and most niggling health problems disappeared. (And I never set foot in a gym!!!)Who am I judging? Me! I was that fat chick. Been there, done that, still own the t-shirt. I have never said that fat people are ugly, just that I don't find their bodies attractive if they are morbidly obese.Unfortunately I can't do beach walks where I live now and my weight is creeping up again. I will always have a battle if I want to stay trim and fit, so on to the treadmill I go.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I for one am not stuck in the belief that breasts, etc. have to be big to be good. I think A cup is fine too - remember that it's much more than someone's physical appearance when it comes to genuine attraction, but smaller figures are just as attractive to me as fuller ones.Craig.
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RHP User
14 years ago
from my point of view a lady with curves is a beautiful thing when i met my ex she was a 12 even when she was a 24 i still thought she was beautiful and sexy. i have other friend that would blow away with a slight breeze and i still find a curves they way to go. here comes a really bad comparison but i find a petite lady to be like a drag strip fun but going straight, a lady with curves is like alpine pass beautiful view where ever you look and much more fun handling the curves .but personality is the key a beautiful personality makes a person more attractive then anything else
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RHP User
14 years ago
Three men were discussing the female anatomy. "I like to see big, firm tits." said the first. "I like to see a nice, round arse." said the second. The third thought about it and said, "I like to see the top of her head."
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RHP User
14 years ago
Three men were discussing the qualities they like in women. "I like a woman with a good brain," said the first, "What do you like in a woman?" "I like a woman with a good heart," said the second, "What do you like in a woman?" "My dick." said the third.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'roxxyrose' this is what i came back for!!! im a fat chick and im proud to be one i agree with PolarBear...i always thought i put out cause i was fat (you never know when the next lay will come for us fatties) but ive learnt its because im a slut too fat sluts unite!!!! Hugs I wouldn't say I am attracted to 'fat' girls per se, but I have had a few girls who were overweight. I was attracted to other things in them.I would certainly say that a curvy figure is more attractive than too skinny, (sorry skinny girls, you are still pretty. No don't throw up in the toilet or cigarette burn your arms - kisses X X X), but curves are more 'womanly' whereas very slim girls can be a bit 'boyish' (for my taste). Also big girls with wide hips and big boobs can be just adorable. I can't get excited with reed thin girls who look like they need to eat something, (unless they want to eat me.)There is more to a woman that just physical ideals portrayed by a biased media. All women are different and all those who are attracted to women have different tastes. To each their own.
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RHP User
14 years ago
being very much a larger girl .......... I would just like to say that who really cares what others, they dont have to contact you ............ it is much sexier to be someone who likes themselves and is comfortable in the skin they were given.............. that said I have no trouble finding men of all ages to play in my sandbox so maybe sexy is more of an essence we exude rather than a look that we have
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RHP User
14 years ago
LIKE* ........ please insert where appropriate as i forgot the whole damn word
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